Last Sat, we went to a famous name analysis. I hv heard about him from my colleagues...it seems he is pretty accurate in reading name. What is a name analysis? Basically, he reads your life, characteristic, wealth and health by just looking at your name. He will calculate your Chinese name stroke and analysis from there.

In fact it is D who wants to get his name change. Somehow he feels his name is not right. Since it is a free consultation, Eunice and I tagged along too. Actually, Eunice is not interested at all to check her name. She was like grumbling why i include her in.

We have waited for almost half a year for our appointment and definitely we are not going to miss it right. My only intention is to ask on my career path - what field will suits me? But i didn't achieve my objective. Can you believe it if i were to tell you that i have forgotten to ask him?

During the consultation, time really flies. He speaks fast and it feels shorts. Maybe the waiting for the period of 6 months is feels way much longer than our consultation time.

D has changed his name when he was young. This was done by his parents. So when the Name Analysis master ( HanLim) asked him "if i were to tell you that your old name is your name, can you accept this?" .....D said "YES!"...

There's where he started to comment. According to him, it's pointless to get a name changed if it's does not obtain a full acknowledgment in your heart. If your old name still exist in your heart then you would still own the characteristic or life of your old name. So what is his view of his new name. One word "GOOD! Only drawback is Stubborn". How about his old name ? "Extremely BAD"

His old name indicates that

• Loner. Either his relationship wont work out regardless how long it is OR his marriage will be broken ( Is that the reason why he's not married yet till this age?)
• No or very slim changes of getting a child. If he has a child, he would need to sacrifice some lucks or wealth.
• Will POH CHOY ( broken luck) till age 80
• Got luck but cant retain. Luck or wealth will flow out for car damage, parent's medical etc etc ( He's right. Whenever, his car has prob, he knows he will strike 4D. In another words, if he strike 4D, he would need to repair his car or something else)
• In terms of career, he is like the 2nd wife - can never move up his ladder. (This is very true, he has been working for many years in the previous company and many colleagues and higher management acknowledge his ability but somehow, he was not given a change to move up. )
• He will feel a drop in his life when he is 32 and another drop at the age of 41 and another drop at the age of 50+ ( D kept quiet until the end of the consultation, he admitted that everything didn't go well at the age of 32 onwards when he got back to Malaysia. (Wow, is he so accurate??)

So how about Eunice and me? He elaborated our name together. Reason being is we have the same first two name -surname and middle name. He seems to elaborate Eunice name more, maybe her name is more serious or he knows eunice is even a tougher person to convince to change name.haha. His comment on both of our name:

• Eunice is a firm and hard person. She is very sure of what she wants and have plan for her life. She wont be easily influence by others (Initially i wasn't too agree with him. Eunice to me is such an indecisive person -even taking a day leave, she wont consult me a few times. Even she is going to decide on whether to work locum or not, she would ask me a thousand times. How could she be a firm person? Then he asked and explained further.

Master: Do you pray? What type of GOD do you pray to?
Eunice : Yeah. Hmm ....any CHINESE GOD. Coz we are taoism
Master: Would you think of go to temple to pray or follow BIG group?Haha ..

Hahaha. Obvious she never thought of going to temple to pray. Only whenever mom or i
asked then she follows.
(The more listen to his explanation further and recalling our moments together, i started to realize that he was RIGHT. Eunice is a stubborn person...she will not change her mind once she has made the decision. For even a small thing like tasting a kaya puff. She wont even take a bite of the kaya puff once she said she is filling. Regardless how hard you tried to persuade her, she wont get influence. Also she wont seek for fortune teller. The Hanlim master commented that Eunice won't even consider of changing her name today even aft the consultation because she won't believe. It may not happen or she might take a few months to decide to change.)

• As for me, i am very very indecisive person. I cant decide on my matter. Other people's matter, i know how to advise and decide for them BUT when come to own matter, i would seek others for opinion or easily influence by people. Sometimes will make the wrong decision. I am also a soft person - basically easily influence. Other people make take advantage or take granted of me (It's true! Undeniably true! I hate to admit but i know i'm an indecisive person. Especially on my career, education, love..simple things like where to eat, what to do etc etc...haiz, basically all)
• Eunice owns a majesty name. BUT this majesty need to venture his own path. I also need to venture my own path. Not many "kui ren" ( people's help). ( I hope otherwise)
• In terms of career, we are very useful to our bosses but we are not appreciated or rewarded well. Due to my soft personality, i would either keep quiet and continue working OR i will move out/change career -let go easily. But as for Eunice, due to her tough and firm personality, she would remain and fight for her rights. But still she will not be rewarded. Her ability can go much further than anyone can expect. Eunice also has the ability to own a business by herself in future. (True True True. Eunice was given an opportunity to set up a new pharmacy centre in Emergency Ward. She has everything done on her own without much supervision. She is bored in the department ald. In terms of learning, not much. Just a lot of paper work. Bosses are throwing more unwanted job responsibility like replacing a staff who always apply for leave and she is require to help out outpatient. When she requested for re-shuffle, she didn't get it-the alone person fail to be shuffle to other department! Me? The same...in my previous company, tons and tons of work are thrown to me. I just take in ...till one day, i can't take it anymore, i left. I don't want such kind of scenario to happen again. i hate changing career- enter to new industry and start all over again. when can i get job stabled? what type of job fits me? I need an answer)
• in terms of intelligence, we both have it. But he did commented that i have some shakiness in my education. He asked if i completed my studies and i said yes. (maybe during my Master course)
• Health - BAD. We are easily fall sick for sinus, headache and indigestion. It will get worse when we are at the age of 32. Eunice's condition is worse than me. It seems, aft her pregnancy , she wont has the tendency to get ladies sickness. ( Me is just headache but Eunice has sinus and indigestion)
• Eunice's name is a Widow's name - either not married or divorce or become a widow
• Eunice is difficult to conceive
• As for me, my love relationship will have prob and will not last even many years together. Love married also will not last long.
• For my headache, he advise me to remove my bed lamp above my head and re-allocate the fluorescent light away (Maybe generally that happens to everyone who sleeps under lights)

I'm sad and become worried after getting his consultation. I'm concern on Eunice's future especially on her health and love. I always hope Eunice will fall in love to a sweet and loving guy and eventually get married and have a happy family....she deserve someone special. My six sense always tell me that Eunice will own a happier family than i do. But after hearing what the HanLim Master said, i'm shocked and hope it is not true. Haih....first time we heard such a bad comment on our life in every aspect. Feeling bad...fear .... fear....and fear

By changing our name, can this really helps?? Btw, we also need mum to believe and agree on this.